So you want to find an amazing person and make them your boyfriend or girlfriend? Well how the heck are you going to do this exactly? With every goal, you need a plan otherwise you are just shooting yourself in the foot and stopping yourself from getting what you ultimately want or prolonging it.
In this post I will be going over some ideas to help you find the person you want and enter into a relationship with them. I hope you find these rapid fire tips helpful.
Tip One – Cast You Net Wide
Girls and guys are everywhere but there is only one you and you can only be in one place and at one time. So in order to increase your opportunities and find the person you want, you need to cast your net wide and be in as many places as possible. Thanks to the Internet and online dating, you can have your “digital self” helping you to show up in as many places as possible.
So join some dating Websites and even an online app like Tinder and put up your profile. This is the equivalent of you boosting your range of opportunities and increasing your chances of finding your ideal match.
Tip Two – Change Yourself
This is a tip that I learned from a training course called the Girlfriend Activation System that is a complete dating course from Christian Hudson. It’s aimed at men but both men and women can learn a lot from it. But the key underlying factor is that in order to find the person that you want you need to be willing to change. If there are things that you are doing that are preventing you from being with the person of your dreams or stopping you from taking advantage of opportunities that you get yourself in to. Then you need to work hard at changing yourself. As Bruce Lee said “be water my friend”.
Tip Three – Go Out On Dates
The more dates you go out on with potential partners the better you will become at communicating, learning more about people and human nature, and gaining more confidence and experience. This will help you when Mr Right or Miss Right comes along and you will have a greater opportunity to be at your best and attract them.
Okay, well that’s enough tips for now. I hope you found value in this post and remember to implement what you have learned. Because nothing will happen unless you act!